Communicating doubt and changing course can sometimes be a signal of self-awareness and maturity. But for career development, projecting confidence and consistency is the better plan.
Internal State:
I don't know what we should do with my life - it is a judgment call, and I don't have the experience or data to make a strong recommendation. Thus, I'll choose the option that looks most attractive in the moment.
External (Manager's) Need:
Clear signal of what you want to do.
Source of Conflict:
You're setting the wrong standard. Uncertainty is expected. If you get to 100% confidence, then you've wasted a bunch of time.
Resolution:
Your manager can't read your mind, and constant oscillations will lead to immobilization, eliminating your strongest advocate in your organization.
Make a choice, based on a simple consistent narrative and stick with it. Don't go chasing shiny objects.* Devote yourself to reaching clarity. Only when you reach a significant change in your understanding, and have found a simple, linear way to communicate it should you ask your manager to change course.
* Be careful pursuing opportunities inconsistent with your career path narrative. The groundwork within your organization hasn't been laid for such a change, and your manager may become immobilized. If you don't get the position, you will need to work to re-establish your career narrative.
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